I'll take you over if you let me
Aug. 2nd, 2004 11:05 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
flwrpwr_vampyreI'm a little upset at a certain person right now and I'm not going to mention names because this journal isn't used as a weapon. I just need to vent and get it out of my system.
My mom was dating this guy who seemed so perfect for her and she was starting to become really happy with him and herself. I thought it was great because I knew he was selfless and would put her before him and would treat her right. My mistake.
He is so caught up in his ex that he can see nothing else. He has delusioned himself into thinking she cared for him at the level that he cares for her and that she is still in love with him. She is using him and everyone can see that but him. That, ladies and gentlemen, is why you don't fall in love, it blinds you to things you would otherwise see.
He says he is a person who puts himself first in relationships yet that is the opposite of how he treated my mother. Every time he was around her it was so obvious that he was thinking of his ex when my mom worked hard at hiding her hurt over Rob (her ex) so that she wouldn't make him more sad because she was sad. Then, to top it off, he tells her that they shouldn't see each other until he is over his ex. And as he claims that he will never be over her my mom can tell that she is being 'dumped.'
When you confront him about this stuff all he does is defend himself. In fact, I am sure his reply to this entry will be him defending himself yet again. That attribute is so like my father and is one of the reasons my mom divorced him. It pisses me off that I couldn't see it in time to keep my mother from being hurt by another man she cares (cared?) deeply for.
I am done with my rant, thank you for listening..
My mom was dating this guy who seemed so perfect for her and she was starting to become really happy with him and herself. I thought it was great because I knew he was selfless and would put her before him and would treat her right. My mistake.
He is so caught up in his ex that he can see nothing else. He has delusioned himself into thinking she cared for him at the level that he cares for her and that she is still in love with him. She is using him and everyone can see that but him. That, ladies and gentlemen, is why you don't fall in love, it blinds you to things you would otherwise see.
He says he is a person who puts himself first in relationships yet that is the opposite of how he treated my mother. Every time he was around her it was so obvious that he was thinking of his ex when my mom worked hard at hiding her hurt over Rob (her ex) so that she wouldn't make him more sad because she was sad. Then, to top it off, he tells her that they shouldn't see each other until he is over his ex. And as he claims that he will never be over her my mom can tell that she is being 'dumped.'
When you confront him about this stuff all he does is defend himself. In fact, I am sure his reply to this entry will be him defending himself yet again. That attribute is so like my father and is one of the reasons my mom divorced him. It pisses me off that I couldn't see it in time to keep my mother from being hurt by another man she cares (cared?) deeply for.
I am done with my rant, thank you for listening..
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Date: 2004-08-02 04:47 pm (UTC)men.... >:o
Tony?
Date: 2004-08-02 05:03 pm (UTC)Yeah agreed about the men thing.
But you have to admit, we aren't always better...
Re: Tony?
Date: 2004-08-03 11:34 am (UTC)Yeah, tony's not over his ex-fiance Amy, nor is he done screwing his ex girlfriend Amy.
But he's got time to make my life a living hell. >:o
Oh...
Date: 2004-08-04 06:28 am (UTC)I tell him that I will pissed if I don't go out with him and what does he say?! Don't worry about it. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN!? *totally stresses*
Is that a yes, no, or maybe? And if it's a maybe then WHEN THE HELL DO I GET AN ANSWER?!
Bleh...